Saturday, June 18, 2011

..dies but not by itself


At a point in my life, I tried to fit in with the people around. That didn’t just include: showing up at some festive gathering even at times when i didn’t wanted to because there is something the society calls it cooperation, wearing outfits which were supposedly in fashion, giving opinions which sometimes might not have been what you wanted to say but knew what the other person expected to hear. These ones are actually the simpler versions of what some of us do to fit in with the environment.


On the higher grounds; in our everyday routine, having to deal with so many different characters is a norm. Some people don’t deserve any goodness, they are selfish, conceit and narrow minded. You want to be good but sometimes it is difficult when it gets too much. As with the old saying ‘what goes around comes around’ and so means what came around has to be given around. You won’t fit in a group where your good intentions and humble behaviour is disrespected. If you want to fit in, you have to reciprocate exactly in a manner that’s got you treated with. No more letting others take advantage of who you are and no longer will people dare do things which might hurt your sentiments. Well, that’s what you have become. Isn’t it a sad thing, now that you have become one of these people? Then again, you have but for the better and for yourself.


In all these events, let not die your morality and the person you are and you were. Good nature dies but not by itself. Just have to be careful. 

6 comments:

  1. Lotey, a very lovely and a realistic post. Enjoyed reading it. By the way,it seems something's gone wrong with someone somewhere. :( Hope it's not a serious...
    Keep posting - you do write thoughtful pieces la

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  2. nothing's gone wrong Langa..infact these days dhi i am at peace and doing very fine :D happy as well. ofcourse in the past few wrongs but nothing that bothers me now.

    well some of the things i write are through experience..at the same time i also learn alot by just being around with people. and sometimes i gather all these things together

    thanks langa for reading and the kinds words :))

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  3. Aum Lotey, you are as livelier as anyone and if someone is telling you to change who you are then, it's their problem mena tey, You be who you are and as for me, I enjoy your company.

    With lots of love and misses!

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  4. I too feel the same. Gossiping mostly includes hatreds, jealousy and bad talks about others. I too try to avoid gossiping with my friends, but certainly I become odd from them. Nice story, love it!

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